This week I’ve had the fortune to get on a management and leadership course, which began yesterday.
The organiser was talking to us about how the most important thing that comes out of the course is the connections you make (when is that not the case?!) and that this newly forming network can lead to opportunities.
It reminded me of a very simple fact – if I hide what truly matters to me and only share with the group the parts of my passions which I consider safe to be shared, like my desire to lecture in Philosophy, then that will be the only area in which opportunities can open.
The only way to follow all of my loves is to allow them all to be present in my interactions with people.
A scary thing, for me, to be risk being seen as nutty… but if I don’t take the risk, the doors won’t open even if they’re there. And if I hide the pagan elements in my life in case people reject me, or my love of art and music because I’m being ‘serious’ and I’m shy about sharing those things with strangers in person, then the opportunities that come up in the areas I am open about won’t allow room for those things either.
So I ask myself, and you, what matters so much that you’ll take a risk and speak openly of it in order to invite it further into your life?
Whats worth the risk?