Changing Patterns, choice, Determination, Devotion, familiarity, Fears, learning, Otherworlds, Pandora's Box
I have, in my life, two rather different groups of gods. The Feri gods, and the Others.
I am still in the process of accepting these Others, although my actions tell me that I have, really. The altars, the offerings, the studying of their lore… all actions which say; yes, yes I see you. Yes, you are entering my life, and I am not fighting.
I’m not fighting anymore, but I’m still wary, still scared.
I’ve spent the past few years slowly opening up to the fact that one of Them is present… as gentle as She has been with me.
This year I learnt who the other face, the hidden one, was.
And in opening to this hidden piece, opening rather than hiding as I’ve always done (every night she came I cried out ‘go!’ And she would leave), in opening, I let the others in.
Some are still on the fringes, waiting for the right time. I know now that I cannot simply avoid them, they will arrive when they choose to. For now I am given work to do, to become strong, to learn things that can serve later, though I’m not sure how.
And all this raises questions.
Why did I avoid them? Was I scared of the power I can feel they hold? Was I scared of the reality, the reality in magic that I believe but often doubt? It feels that way. They are real, powerful, capable of turning my life upside down. And yet, they are being oh so gentle with me. This does not match the stories I’ve heard of them from others.
And so now, I doubt. I doubt that they are who I think they are… and then I remember the external confirmations (coincidence some part of me states firmly, I shake it away). I doubt that they are really interested in me, and wonder if I’m just hoping that I’m useful. And I doubt that any of this will be useful, to anyone.
And here is where the hard lessons come in; trust, surrender, risk.
I heard once that it is better to fight with a sword in both hands and your heart open, than to hide behind a shield.
What else am I doubting? What other powers am I scared of? What is it that will come of this?
So I’m learning to trust, working out a way of building up a relationship with these beings that are entering my life, learning about the things they’ve pointed me towards… and generally finding that everything is enhanced as a result.
And I’m trying not to invite catastrophe by doubting them because my life is still up the right way!
Dave Verrill said:
Yes, trust, surrender and risk are important on any journey. Especially so when we don’t know quite where we are going or which paths to follow. Reading the trail and interpreting what signs we may find is a difficult task and those who come and guide us can only be what they are. It is for us to learn and contribute as best we can.