Occult Con Reflections – Immortality

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Part of a series of posts inspired by the South Wales Occult Conference in Cardiff on 2nd November 2024 – find the first post and index here.

Starting off with the question:

“Who here is immortal?”

Was certainly a fun move for this talk by Sorita D’Este.

A dozen or so people put their hands up, including myself and the entirety of our Star Club contingent (I’m told). If I’m honest, my first thought was:

“Which part of me are you asking?”

Because actually the answer depends, but my intuitive response was completely without doubt.

Some essential part of me, the part of me that wanted to answer the question, is immortal. Don’t ask me to explain any deeper though!


The talk itself was actually exploring some of the ways in which people have historically sought immortality, and what it might mean.

From the possibility of becoming a god, reincarnation, eternal afterlives, and ghosts as astral immortality…

Through to the concept of physical immortality through meditation, or potions and preservatives…

Immortality has been a topic that has fascinated humans for a long time.

A glimpse of my conference notes

One form of immortality that feels the most possible to attain through our actions and choices is that of being remembered, and this feeds into the concept of the Mighty Dead – famous dead humans who seem to like interacting with the living, perhaps to continue being remembered! (Saints, heroes, ancient Kings and Queens…).

This is a form often mentioned in myth and legend, and one powerful curse is “may your name be forgotten”, suggesting that this is a really important piece for many of us. To be remembered is to live on in people’s hearts and minds in some way. In that famous epic Gilgamesh learned this lesson. His quest for immortality led to the realisation that he would live on through his deeds, the things he built, and as long as people spoke his name.

I know this doesn’t sound like the kind of immortality that most of us think of, its far from the eternal unchanging nature of the movie screen vampire, or the ever-living sorceress. But it is a truth that our bodies return to the Earth eventually. And even if reincarnation, or an eternal afterlife, are true, there is still something in the self-that-I-am-now that cannot survive that. The loss of this body, of this set of relationships and experiences, must be an ending of some kind. Being remembered as we are now is a way in which the self that we are lives on, as we are.

This connection between immortality and memory is so enduring, and fascinating to me.

In many pagan traditions, as in some queer spaces like the Trans Day of Remembrance events, we have begun saying the names of our dead so that they are remembered, so that they live on in our communities, and so that they are fed. It is an old practice, and a powerful one.

I do sometimes wonder, who will speak my name when I am gone? Do you know who might speak yours?

Sorita outlined several examples of people becoming gods, or gaining a cult following, or having their names immortalised. But one utterly delightful process of apotheosis (becoming divine) that she shared from inscriptions on gravestones was that which outlined how certain individuals who were aligned with specific deities of the Earth, Underworld, or Land, would be described as physically becoming that deity when their body was buried.

The buried body still has life, and feeds life, and becomes one with the living earth, the body of the goddess that they belong to. The main example given was Hekate. (If you know Sorita’s work that will be no surprise!)

So perhaps the physicists have one key to practical immortality – energy cannot be created nor destroyed, only transformed. If the Platonists were right and Hekate is the Living Soul of the Earth, then when our bodies are buried the life that they are becomes part of the life of the immortal being that is Hekate.

Our memories live on, immortal in the memories of those who come after us.

Our bodies return to the body of the Divine.

Our spirits, well, I’ve dreamed enough and journeyed enough to know that our spirits may well have adventures once this life comes to an end.

So perhaps it doesn’t matter which part of me you ask… or whether you ask the religious, the storytellers, or the physicists… I really am immortal.

But… I do really quite like it here so I’m in no rush to discover what that’s like!


Your Turn: Are you immortal? What does it mean to you? Share your story in the comments below!


Storytelling is a wonderful way to honour those that have come before and support their immortal memory… and it is an act of magic in itself. In January 2025 I have a new book coming on Storytelling for Magic – both how to use storytelling in magic and ritual, and how to learn the bardic skills for storytelling to use in other parts of your magic… And have fun!

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Occult Con Reflections – On Initiation into a Modern Magical Order

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Part of a series of posts inspired by the South Wales Occult Conference in Cardiff on 2nd November 2024 – find the first post and index here.

As I shared previously, at the conference I teamed up with my friend Sef from The Visible College to speak on our joint project – Star Club.

Star Club is a syncretic magical training program rooted in the Western esoteric tradition, blending ceremonial and ecstatic pagan practices to give students the opportunity to develop themselves and their skills as magicians. We teach a bit, discuss a bit, and then apply it in group ritual to get results.

Of course, once we completed the first training cycle something else emerged with a life of its own. A new modern magical order (to quote Dr Bob Plimer), complete with initiation for those that want to be a part of it… and further support and training for our members, because we never stop learning!

At the Conference we talked specifically about initiation and it’s impact on individuals and the order itself. How initiation occurs as part of the process of becoming…

Sef and myself, with a PowerPoint!

Initiation is a funny thing.

It can be a change initiated within you.

It can be a new chapter begun.

It can be an initiation into a tradition or order – which can be like joining a club, being adopted, or getting married.

So what happens in initiation for a modern magical order?

Initiation is by definition a beginning, but when something new begins, the old dies.

Within Star Club we designed the whole training cycle as a process which supports the transformation of self, and the initiations themselves are a part of that.

In the final session of the training cycle our final group working is our version of the ritual known as “The Headless Rite”, developed from the “Greek Magical Papyri”, which acts as an initiation of completion and integration. And then, after the cycle is complete, practitioners are invited to initiate into the order itself and we come back together for a big ritual…

The first is an initiation of internal change, the second is an initiation of becoming part of something larger than yourself.

But what is always worth remembering is that when a new person joins a group, that person is changed in relationship, and the group is also changed. It now has something that it didn’t have before.

Initiation doesn’t just change the individual… It changes the order, the magic of the club.

And as magicians, witches, pagans, and company, we know that “as above, so below” – all parts partake of each other – and thus changing ourselves, and changing the order, also changes the world.

Your Turn:

What are your stories of initiation, whether explicitly magical or spontaneously occurring, that you can share publicly? When have you stepped through a gateway, or finished a chapter, and found that it wasn’t just you that had changed but the world around you changed too?

I’d love to hear your stories in the comments below. (Or you can join the conversation in The Enchanted Academy here!)


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Occult Con Reflections – Plants of the Underworld

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Part of a series of posts inspired by the South Wales Occult Conference in Cardiff on 2nd November 2024 – find the first post and index here.

The South Wales Occult Conference is organised and hosted by Sian Sibley and her coven, DragonOak, and when a speaker had to drop out the day before the conference Siany stepped in and gave a really interesting talk on Plants of the Underworld

Plants of the Underworld - Sian Sibley - Tied to Death, Remembrance, and Safe Passage .Photo of scrawled conference notes with doodled branch and pentagrams as bullet points, with the subtitle: Yew - Immortal trees.
Remember: don’t eat of the Yew tree… They’re immortal but you’re not!

As a witch I often think I should be better at herbalism. When I left college I went to study holistic therapies – massage, reflexology, aromatherapy – because it seemed important to me that I should know a healing skill.

(I then spent a year trying to set up a therapy business – named Flutterby Therapies – as I figured it was the best way to offer magical healing services in a way that fit with the culture I lived in. Unfortunately I didn’t have any real business skills and it didn’t take off, but I certainly learned in the process!)

My understanding of herbalism, however, has remained rudimentary, so I was curious to hear what Siany would share about plants

In her talk, Plants of the Underworld, Siany told us about plants that are connected to death, plants for remembering the ancestors, and plants for safe passage to (and from) the Underworld.

Notes on the plants of the Underworld talk with watercolour doodles noted in caption - Mostly illegible text.
By doodling I keep my concentration on the talk, and it gives a visual clue to the content! I wonder what story these images make: a tree, a drop of blood, a yew aril, a pomegranate…

One thing that I really enjoyed was the reminder of how much of this I already knew, because, actually, herbalism is only one way of working with plant spirits. Some part of my spirit relaxed, finally letting go of the “should” that I’ve felt around this piece of magic which is so deeply associated with my chosen Path.

You do not need to be a herbalist to work with plants. You don’t need to get a certificate, or take a long course, or learn all the Latin names (though that can definitely be fun!). Rather, you can take a basic identification guide out and talk to the plants themselves. You can pay attention to the stories, as always, and learn from the wisdom within.

But please, if you want to practice the kind of healing involved in herbalism – consuming or applying plant material to the body – then the study is important. Our powerful plant allies can be deadly!

Identification and a basic knowledge of toxicity is particularly important for those plants associated with death and the underworld – as the easiest way to reach the Underworld is through that final gateway, from which we do not return.

Siany shared with us about the Yew tree, ancient and immortal, whose song sounds, to me, like an eternal chorus of angels, and whose presence is patient peace.

Hemlock and Belladonna, as poisonous teachers of the underworld. Blackthorn, whose scratches are so often toxic, as both guardian and guide to the liminal.

And those plants who connect us to our ancestors – Rosemary, a European plant of memory, whose chemistry stimulates remembering, and whose presence protects and reminds us of who came before.

Lavender, to enhance dreams of our ancestors and make space for grieving. So often used as an essential oil in many households it is a sedative and lowers blood pressure – which is why many people find it helps with sleep. Taking us closer to the Underworld in a gentle way.

Though be careful, still, for if you already have low blood pressure lavender can make that worse, just as rosemary raises blood pressure! Our plant allies are powerful, even the gentle ones, so a little research and a lot of getting to know them is always key.

And this makes sense, because as witches our magic is rooted in relationship, and those relationships are going to be different for each person, so it is up to you to build the relationships that work for you rather than just picking something someone has told you in a book.

Even when a plant, or deity, or other spirit, normally behaves in a particular way with most people, it doesn’t mean it will work with you that way, and vice versa of course. Relationships take time and paying attention.

Yellow and orange marigolds gently closing as the sun sets over the sea

One lovely piece of lore that I didn’t know was that in (some) South American cultures the Marigold is a flower for honouring the ancestors, specifically as our pathway into this world. I loved hearing about this bright, beautiful, joyful flower as part of ancestor magic. Our Underworld allies need not always be gloomy, there is beauty and joy here too.

Finally Siany shared some plants for safe passage to the underworldPoppy, the flower of sleep and remembrance, Hawthorn, the liminal tree of edges and boundaries that feeds the travellers with berry and leaf, Pomegranates, the fruit of Persephone, of life, fertility, and death, Mandrake, with its talismanic roots shaped like our human dead, and Mugwort, the plant of opening psychic senses and brewing dreamer’s tea.

This talk wasn’t just about who to approach for what task, though, but also about the practitioner’s encounters with those plants – and for that, well, you’ll have to ask Sian Sibley herself, for those are not my stories to tell.

I love that Siany combines both a magical experience with a scientist’s background, proving that these are not only compatible approaches, but enhance each other.

You can find Sian Sibley’s books on working with plant spirits here!



Your Turn:

Perhaps you have stories you’d like to share of when you’ve met these plants, or of things you’ve felt you “should” learn in order to be a witch, or druid, or pagan, or occultist, or whatever path you are on, and you realised that actually you don’t have to do it that way. Like me realising that I don’t need to learn herbalism, as I already have a relationship with plant spirits and there are many ways to work with them that suits me better…

Whatever they are, I’d love to hear your stories in the comments below.


Cover of Folktales, Faeries, and Spirits book

One powerful way to build relationship with the spirits of your land is through the stories and folklore local to you. Folktales, Faeries,& Spirits is a guidebook to how you can find those tales and unpick the clues within.

Folktales, Faeries, and Spirits – a practical guide to working with faeries and the spirits of nature, by Halo Quin

Occult Con Reflections: Egyptian Fetishes

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No, not that kind of fetish.

Part of a series of posts inspired by the South Wales Occult Conference in Cardiff on 2nd November 2024 – find the first post and index here.

Dr. Robert A. Plimer (of Black Lodge Publishing)  is an academic and a practitioner who I’ve heard speak on Egyptian magic several times now, and he’s always fascinating.

This was no exception.

Some of my notes, scrawled in black ink with red and yellow watercolour highlights.

Dr. Bob spoke on different types of Fetishes, magical objects, how they were made, what they were for, and their parallels with mummies.

How these were made of, or including, bone, seeds, milk… Things that are of the body… And smeared in blood, or red as a symbol of blood, to bring them to life.

And how they were the focal point for intention.

Between the matter and the mind and the life force in the blood… The Fetishes become living sites of spirit interaction, bridges between the practitioner and the Others.

What really struck me was the importance of the material aspect in this process – this is magic that is embodied, with no claim to be separate from this world. The Fetishes need all three aspects to work as magical objects.

I also really enjoyed hearing about the healing steles – carved stone images with script, as a charm for healing, activated by having wine poured over the carvings. The wine would flow in the shape of the healing charm and become imbued with that spell.

Magic you can eat, not just think about.

In my work I often remind students that to be the most effective practitioners possible we need to bring all of our parts to the magic in alignment: our physical self, our mental self, and our divine self.

This can appear many different ways, of course, but that principle is demonstrated here too.

The physical, mental, and spiritual/divine aspects all shaped with one purpose, and the magic is rooted in an understanding of how these are all inherently interconnected.

Dr Bob did also remind us that any work like this has to be within the context of the Practitioner’s culture, that an object to house spirits probably won’t work in a context that doesn’t allow for spirits to be housed… Which reminds me that it isn’t just our inner parts that need to work together to make magic, but that the world needs to have space for magic for it to happen.

Let’s continue to make that space.


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Occult Con Reflections – Jung & Astrology

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Part of a series of posts inspired by the South Wales Occult Conference in Cardiff on 2nd November 2024 – find the first post and index here.

Being somewhat of a night owl, and staying with 3 other night owls (the witching hour is a good time to be awake, in our book!) somewhat of a drive away, I sadly missed the first talk by the lovely Brett Hollyhead but we made it to the second talk: Frances Clynes on Jung and Astrology.

Astrology has long been of interest to me, though I’m far from an expert.

It combines several really cool things:

  • Exploring what makes people who they are
  • stories
  • patterns and connections
  • the magic of the planets
  • cool symbols
  • mystical maths
  • time

and lots of confusion from people who don’t believe a philosopher can also believe in astrology!

The talk was interesting, delving into some of the principles of Jung’s work in psychology – or those attempts to understand how people tick – his model of the triple soul, and the nature of archetypes as arising form the collective unconscious.

A snippet of notes…

Clynes then demonstrated how archetypes can appear as characters in astrological natal charts, through combinations of planets and their places in the signs and houses. Such as if the Sun is in a “strong” position – such as in Leo – then you might find a hero archetype. If that happens in the eighth house (sex, death, mystery), conjunct Chiron (the wounded healer) that archetype might become a dark, mysterious type with a painful past… think Batman as opposed to Superman. Both arguably heroes, but with different backgrounds and approaches. (Please take these with a grain of salt, I was too fascinated to write down the actual examples!)

Jung is so influential in modern magical understanding that this felt like it would fit really smoothly with magical practices I’m familiar with, and I found Clynes’ description of the relationship between the archetypes and the unconscious, related to the archetypes’ appearances in the charts, really reminiscent of the way deities are often said to be born as shining lights out of the darkness of the primordial night. Individual beings become out of the relationship between Powers, energies, and events.

The gods are manifestations of intersections, just like we are.

And, of course, Jung’s work was orientated towards integration of all our parts.

Bringing those archetypes in our selves together, and into consciousness, so we can become aware of their roles within us, aware of our whole selves, and working together rather than at odds.

And using the natal chart to discover those archetypes which we might not be aware of consciously within us, seems like a very practical tool for self discovery that would help with understanding some of the ways the nuances of interpreting planetary relationships manifest!

The South Wales Occult Conference 2024

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This weekend I had the pleasure of speaking at the South Wales Occult Conference again, organised by Sian Sibley and the Dragonoak Coven.

In 2022 I spoke on the Fair Folk, but this time I teamed up with Sef Salem to speak together on initiation in relation to our joint project – the practical training program and modern magical order: Star Club – and take the whole conference to the underworld. But I’ll tell you about that later.

Given my academic background it probably isn’t surprising that I like conferences, but you don’t have to be academic to be inspired by such a fascinating range of speakers and topics.

Poster with speaker line up: Life's Slow Fatal Dance - A Conference on Death, Dying and Working with the Underworld.

The 2024 Welsh Occult conference is on the 2nd Of November 2024 in Cardiff.

Speakers at the Conference 

Dr Al Cummins - Sorcerer and Necromancy practitioner.

Sorita D'Este - Devotee of Hekate, Author, Publisher

Dr Robert Plimer - Author and Dr of Classics

Ben Stimpson- Author and expert in ancestor workings

Brett HollyHead - Author and Witch

Dr Frances Clynes - Lecturer Trinity St Davids

Mark Norman - Folklorist - Specialising in Churchyard folklore and burial rituals.

Sef Salem & Dr Halo Quin - Ritualist and Conference organisers.

Sarah Janes - Author and expert on Dream Incubation for divination and development.
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Dr Linda Severs -Expert on Otherworldism in the Anglo Saxon times.

Online Recorded Videos

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Ness Bosch - Working with the Bones of Our Ancestors  

Sian Sibley - Plant work with the Underworld.

As you can see from the line up, the theme was “Death, Dying, & The Underworld” and the talks themselves were full of inspiring ideas, interesting questions, and fascinating information.

One thing I love about these events is hearing about people’s research and practice and being inspired to look at things differently. A new perspective or chance quote can open beautiful doors to whole worlds of magical possibilities.

(I took notes on most of the talks and intend to share reflections inspired by each of them in the next couple of weeks!)

But the biggest reason to go… Is to connect with people who are as excited about magic as I am. Shared conversation, listening to people who aren’t in the public eye but have just as much wisdom to share, and remembering that we might be wyrd but we’re not alone.

Some of the attendees, loved having our Star Club crew there!

Thank you to Siany and everyone involved for such a lovely day, for the fantastic blend of paths, and for the community which is woven like a web, anchored in these events and the friendships made at them.

This weekend is Worldwide Witchcamp, which I’m part of the organising team for… More community! This time online, Reclaiming, and in many languages… Registration closes in 15 hours! http://www.worldwidewitchcamp.com

What are your favourite magical events and places to find inspiration and community?

Reflections on the Talks – index

Jung and Astrology – Frances Clynes

Plants of the Underworld – Sian Sibley

Creating Katabasis in the Star Club Initiation – Sef Salem & Halo Quin

Egyptian Fetishes – Dr Robert A Plimer

Immortality – Sorita D’Este


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New Moon Magic

Happy Halloween, blessed Samhain (Beltane for my Southern hemisphere friends) and nos Galan Gaeaf hapus for yesterday folks.

Here in Wales today is Calan Gaeaf, the first of winter, and it’s a a new moon. New season, new calendar month, new lunar month.

Though the moon isn’t visibly new yet, it’s at its point of most dark which means it is new in that darkness, new in the mystery.

I like taking a moment in these in between spaces, where one chapter is ending and the next beginning to reflect and reorientate. It’s a great time, in this darkness before the new crescent, to ask yourself:

What am I doing in my life, and is it what I want to be doing?

Is what I’m doing now making me feel how I want it to?

What can I transform in this darkness, this inner moment, in this cave of the in between, to bring that which I choose with the new light?

At our local pagan Samhain ritual we divined to listen to the advice of the ancestors and beloved dead. I invite you to take a moment to ask for their guidance, and pull a card or rune today.

As we move into the dark half of the year that guidance and support of the unseen realm can be precious. Let yourself be supported, you don’t need to know how intellectually, our dead have always been near, it’s only our modern Western culture that has tried to forget.


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Covens, Belonging, and The Crimson Coven

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Growing up I always loved the idea of a coven, a space to learn and weave magic, to celebrate and heal, a space of community and immersion in enchantment.

I think the biggest thing that called me about it though was a desire for belonging.

A circle in which I could both explore magic with others, and be accepted, to come home to the sacred nature of life together.

Over time I realised I needed to feel at home in my body first, to find a sense of safety that would let me relax into the divine and tap into the witch-power within, and this fed into my crimson craft work.

But more, this is my dream for the Crimson Coven.

Offered as a training space, but, more that that, a magical circle in which you can experience the divine, your power, a space to belong in all of your parts.

(This is why I’m offering a free talk on kink and magic on 9th September in TEA – one part of ourselves that is often excluded is our desire and it’s role in any spiritual path, RSVP for Kinky Magic here.)

This is a big part of why I want to invite you into the Crimson Coven as a member, rather than focussing on stand-alone courses.

Can you imagine the deep healing and magic possible when you find a sense of belonging?

Can you dream of what it would be like to gently uncover your heart’s desire, to find safety in your body, to feel loved by the gods?

Will you gather your courage to step into a Crimson Coven and be all that you are?

Come Home to the Crimson Coven.


Doors Open for The Crimson Coven

The Crimson Coven Membership is now open! Within the academy schools of magic are slowly blossoming, and the first is the Crimson Coven (not to be confused with the Collective, which has now merged with the main space and remains free). You can sign up to the courses as stand-alone offerings, but I love making space for people to really explore the topics at hand.

In the Crimson Coven you’ll learn tools and concepts for your own embodied magic, and experience the energy of divine eros to help you tap into your power. You’ll work on creating deeper relationships with the deities of love and passion, and discover their support.

Included in your Crimson Coven Membership is:

  • a live, experiential, class every month (starting with the elements of eros series),
  • access to the pre-recorded course Deities of Love,
  • heart-centred meditations,
  • a growing library of pre-recorded crimson classes…

This is also where I’ll be sharing previews of my work-in-progress show Blood & Roses, and offering the Rope for Ritual and Magic classes in the New Year.

You can sign up for just £49 a month, or get discounts for a quarterly or annual membership.

Join the Coven Here

(PS: There are a number of scholarships available – get in touch if you need to apply for one.)

Included in the Crimson Coven…

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My Gods are Kinky

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All acts of Love and Pleasure are my rituals.

~Charge of the Goddess by Doreen Valiente

Divided for the sake of union, the beginning and end of all that was, is, and must be, God Herself dances the dance of love and desire.

Cernunnos has sat, cross legged, for thousands of years. His antlers pierce the sky like his blade cuts into the hearts of the animals who give their lives to feed us. That which is used to protect can bring pain, and that which brings pain can bring nourishment. He knows both, this horned god, as he is both predator and prey, hunter and hunted.

Lilith refused to lay underneath Adam the way he said she was supposed to. Instead, she chose freedom, and pleasure on her terms. Some people say she birthed all the monsters of the world, perhaps they were just jealous that she did what they never could… accepted herself.

~ quotes from Crimson Craft

I love being pagan, my deities are vibrant, alive, and sensual. They desire and choose and love. Not every pagan dances with deities, but many do, and there is something precious in the gift of knowing that our gods live, love, and lose just as we do. They are part of this world, part of Nature (yes, including the human nature) and their stories and presence reminds me that the divine really is immanent.

And the gods are kinky.

Kink means anything consensual that arouses which is outside of the “mainstream”, or at least what people call mainstream. And arousal is an altered state of consciousness.

You know, that thing we do in magic.

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The kink and magic communities have been learning from each other for a long time, not least because we’re both on the outskirts of the mainstream (however popular witchtok might get). Both deal in changing the mind through multiple techniques – such as endurance, repetition, performance, sensation – and both are exploring liminal realms.

Now, of course, not all kink is magic and not all magic is kink, but there are tools in the kink kit that magicians can use to support their magic.

And conversations – around consent, restitution, self-acceptance, ethics, community, safety, and navigating everyday life as an outsider – that the kinksters have been having for a long time and we can learn from.

We’re often taught that the spirit and body are separate, and bodily things such as pleasure, and desire are either seen as somehow lesser than the spiritual, dirty, and resigned to the hidden spaces, or given primacy, resigning the spiritual to the realm of fantasy. But this is an illusion, and we can find magic in the flesh, the sacred in the dungeon, and power in the hidden places. We are occultists, after all.

We talk about this connection between sex and magic in the Crimson Collective, and it is reflected in the mythology and deities that embody embodiment. From Inanna, to Aphrodite, to Freya, to Babalon, the goddesses of sex and love are also goddesses of magic and battle, seemingly paradoxically. Perhaps because they are present as their whole selves, and embodiment is key to powerful, transformative magic, and the changing of consciousness and raising of power that happens in magic is present in passion, desire, and arousal too.

Crimson Craft - sexual magic for the solo witch - healing magic working with the divine erotic in ritual and creative practices.

So why, as magical folk, should we shy away from even talking about the connections between kink and magic, and what can be learned in this expression of desire?

The power of embodiment in ritual, and the connections between passion and magic, can be clearly seen in the realm of BDSM and Kink where activities are often ritualised, power flows, and consciousness is changed through the body, whether or not intercourse occurs. Just as Magickal Will is said to be best enacted under the auspices of Love, kinky practices must be held within the boundaries of consent and safety, and when we explore this, one way in which embracing our own shadow can be held as sacred emerges. (I share some of my journey in magical kink in my book, Twisted)

In The Enchanted Academy (TEA), September 2024, I offered a free online talk on the connections between kink and magic, a reprise of “Kink, Magic, and Embodiment” from the Glastonbury Occult Conference, and shone a light on the magic that is present in the Dungeon, and the kinkiness in the Temple, addressed some misconceptions about BDSM, and highlighted some ways in which kinky activities can not only parallel magical activities, but also, in many ways, be magical in themselves. All in the context of embodiment as a divine state and under the watchful eyes of the deities of love, passion, and magic.

This talk was recorded and you can access the replay in The Enchanted Academy!

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Lammas Land Magic

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Happy Lammas, Lughnasadh, Calan Awst, and Imbolc for my Southern Hemisphere folk! Here it’s the start of the grain harvest, and Leo season is in full swing.

The rowan berries are out, turning the small dark trees brilliant red, and, as I write this, the sun has burned away the cooling clouds to bake the stone paths that wind through my town, and the tourists have arrived bringing the scent of sunscreen and the sound of holiday-makers.

Growing up in a large urban space I found it was easy to lean into the abstract idea of the festivals, the land being mediated by the buildings, the clockwork cycles of city life rather than the ebb and flow of sun and rain, but even there it made sense to reflect on the changing colours of the trees, the shifting light and dark of the sky, the warmth and cool that shaped the rhythm of life. I was lucky that the pagan festivals fit with the landscape I lived in, despite the concrete streets and fluorescent lighting I could watch the hawthorn blossom in the hedgerow at Beltane and the grain in the fields turn golden for Lammas.

Even so, it didn’t make sense to me to fix a festival of the magic of the land to a calendar date, as some years the hawthorn was earlier than May 1st, or later, so I began to listen to the magic visible in the rooted people of the land and the movement of the sky instead.

Soon I found myself connected across the growing internet to witches and pagans in other lands, and their struggles with the clash between the calendar dates and what their land was actually doing reinforced that intuition.

We can use the beautiful model of the wheel of the year to help us learn what patterns might be worth looking for, but the key in land based magic, in paganism, is rooting into the land that you are on.

I invite you to reflect on what your land is doing now. Is it harvest time where you are? Is the sun baking the land and drying the grain? Or is the light just breaking the frosts? Or are you heading into monsoon season? What is shifting in the land where you are? Does this have a name in the language of the land you belong to?

This is the same with the magic of the body. We can use maps – chakras, cauldrons, worlds – to explore what might be present for us, but the key that unlocks this magic is listening. Feeling into the body. Being present with what is.

I work a lot with the classical elements of the Western Magical tradition and these can be a really fun way of exploring intuitively. What feels earthy in your body? How are your watery emotions flowing? Where feels alive, pleasurable, good in these energies?

This week in The Enchanted Academy I shared an in-depth energy practice in a ritual working with the Elements of Eros, the magic of love and life as it flows through your body, and expands into pleasure, support, strength, and creativity. The replay is now up in the Crimson Collective community space at TEA, do go and give it a go, I’d love to hear about your experiences with the Elements of Eros!

An Embodied Lammas Practice

If you’re practicing on your own you might want to mark the turning season with a ritual, here’s one for when it feels right for you. (​If you’re at the point of Imbolc, click here for a meditation for you!​)

If you’re feeling the beginning harvest energy then you can tune into that, you could reflect on the magic of Leo, where the Sun is in the zodiac at this time, or you can choose to tap into the web of magic of pagans across the globe celebrating the games of Lugh.

Find somewhere safe to light a fire – a campfire, hearthfire, bonfire, or candle flame. Or find a moment to let the sunlight fall on your skin.

Feel the warmth and breathe it into your heart. This is the home of Leo, which is the sign the Sun is strongest and happiest in.

Let that warmth spill out of your heart and flow through your body, warming and blessing every part of you.

Take a moment to feel gratitude for what is ready to harvest and gather in in your life. Perhaps that includes the food that you have access to, or any community that nourishes you.

When you have that sense of sunny gratitude breathe it out as a blessing on the world. Let the magic be shared.

Remember to put the fire out in an appropriate and respectful way, and if you’re in an area prone to wildfires right now, do stick to sunlight!

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